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  • Jeremy’s Baptism

    Today, I am attended the baptism of a young friend. Jeremy Charles is delightful!


    Jeremy Bubbles

    Jeremy’s Yaya is one of my dear friends, and I am so moved by her deep love and delight in him. He is thriving in the environment of her love, and I am thrilled for them to have found a spiritual community that welcomes and loves them.

    I confess to having some reservations about the traditional language often used in Christian Baptism, with a focus on the ritual as necessary because of “original sin.”

    Last December I wrote a contemporary ritual of infant baptism:

    Life is not immortal only for Christians. Immortal life for Christians is known through the Christ but it is not limited to any single religious path. In the traditions of the world religions this nature of the more of life beyond the body is common. Life goes on. To the Christian it is immortal life in Christ. To the Native Indian, to the Buddhist, to the indigenous peoples around the planet, it is expressed in different ways. But the fact that it is expressed in different ways does not mean that the reality is different.

    Life springs from that which is eternal and life is created in the image and likeness of that which is source to all of life. That image and likeness we are created in is spirit and spirit is eternal.

    In Roadside Assistance for the Spiritual Traveler, Rabbi Rami Shapiro, writes: “Where does an ice cube go in a tub of warm water? You are the cube, God is the water. For a while you seem separate from the water, but eventually you melt – you die – and discover that you, too, are water. Have fun being a cube; just don’t forget that all cubes are water, and everything is God.”

    Baptism is a recognition of the true nature of our existence. We are part of that stream of eternal life. We come from God, and we return to God. We exist before birth, we exist after death. We ARE that I AM.

    Baptism has power, it is affirmative, it is positive. It is the most precious gift of God and comes to us because we seek first the kingdom of God, because that kingdom is our true home.

    In the September 2016 Beyond Mastery Newsletter, I share this quotation from a talk Pope Francis gave in Poland that was recently reported in our local newspaper: “People may judge you to be dreamers, because you believe in a new humanity, one that rejects hatred between peoples, one that refuses to see borders as barriers and can cherish it’s own traditions without being self-centered or small-minded.”

    Oh, this is a dream my heart shares…

    This morning, I recorded a short video of this hand puppet, a gift to Jeremy:


    Jeremy video snip

    The inspiration for the video came from a story Yaya shared with me recently. She and Jeremy had been talking, and he told her she was in his heart and he was in her heart. A few days later, driving past my new office, Jeremy announced, “That’s Debra’s office.”

    Yaya was amazed. Jeremy had only been to that office once, briefly, weeks earlier. She asked him, “How do you remember where Debra’s office is when you have only been there one time?”

    His precious response: “Because Debra is in my heart and I am in Debra’s heart.”

    You certainly are in my heart, Jeremy Charles, and I am honored to be in yours. And as our beloved puppet friend shares with you in this video, we are all also in God’s heart. We always have been. We always will be. That is just the truth about God.

  • Lord’s Supper

    Sacred Stories

    Her grandfather was quite the artist. He did mostly religious paintings. A favorite piece depicting the Lord’s Supper, hung above his bed.

    PHILADELPHIA - MAY 17:  Father Gregory Fairbanks, a professor at St. Charles Borromeo Seminary in Philadelphia, speaks to the media next to a picture of "The Last Supper" by Leonardo Da Vinci, during a news conference regarding the Catholic Church's views about Dan Brown's book, "The Da Vinci Code" May 17, 2006 in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. Worldwide protests and bans on the film, which debuts this week at the Cannes Film Festival, from groups opposed to the depiction of religious organizations and factual misrepresentations in the book and movie.  (Photo by William Thomas Cain/Getty Images)
    PHILADELPHIA – MAY 17: Father Gregory Fairbanks, a professor at St. Charles Borromeo Seminary in Philadelphia, speaks to the media next to a picture of “The Last Supper” by Leonardo Da Vinci, during a news conference regarding the Catholic Church’s views about Dan Brown’s book, “The Da Vinci Code” May 17, 2006 in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. Worldwide protests and bans on the film, which debuts this week at the Cannes Film Festival, from groups opposed to the depiction of religious organizations and factual misrepresentations in the book and movie. (Photo by William Thomas Cain/Getty Images)

    One night, returning home after being out, they found the painting face-down on the bed. The wire hanger was split in two, as though it had been cut.

    Shortly, he received news that his sibling had just died.

    Years passed, and a second time the painting mysteriously was face down, again as though the wire had been split.

    He received notification of the passing of another family member!

    What once seemed so strange, is now seen as evidence spirit and matter are not really separate at all.

    If you have a sacred story to share, send email to debra@scs-matters.com

  • Headstone

    Sacred Stories

    One of the most difficult tasks of their lives lay ahead of them: selecting a headstone for their infant baby daughter.

    Browsing the website, hoping that looking before they went would help her get through it, a black slant-cut heart-shaped stone caught her attention. She did not mention this to her husband, preferring to allow him to have his own thoughts about the selection when they were there.

    Asking about the slant-cut heart, she was told that was not really slant-cut, it just looked that way in the photo.

    They determined the black stone was out of their budget, and were settling for a lighter grey regular heart-shaped stone, when the woman helping them timidly asked if they would be interested in seeing a small black stone that had been ordered by someone else, not realizing it was for an infant.

    The stone was exactly what she had “seen” online!

    headstone

    Our lives are made so much richer by sharing. Please send email to debra@scs-matters.com if you have a sacred story to share.

  • The Gift of Distance


    I will love the light for it shows me the way,
    yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.
    ~ Og Mandino
     

     

    George loved doing woodworking in his shop. He had been in an assisted living facility for the past couple of years. Tuesday, when I attended his funeral, George’s sister, Betty, had brought some of the last items from his shop. She was offering friends to take something as a loving remembrance. I was delighted to select the last of his simple plaques, crafted brilliantly using the contrast of light and dark to create a very significant an optical illusion.

    snip-Jesus-close

    I had one of these years ago, but when someone in a challenging time of life greatly admired it, I gifted that person the plaque. Now that George is in spirit, having this one has even more significance in my heart.

    When you get some distance from the plaque, and you let your eyes relax, by paying attention to the light rather than looking at the dark, you can see the deeper message George created by gluing simple light wood strips on the dark wood background:

    Jesus-far

    What a powerful metaphor for all of life. We can get so tied up in our problems, we can miss the gifts hidden in plain view. A little distance, relaxation, and focus on the light brings resurrection!

     

  • Acupuncture

    Sacred Stories

    Her husband was in rehab. He had not yet regained bowel function, was bloated, toxic, terribly uncomfortable, and growing frustrated with the unsuccessful treatment: stool softener, laxative, suppository. “You would think a progressive hospital like this would have acupuncture available,” she lamented.

    That was noon.

    At 7:00 pm, she received a call from a client she had been playing phone tag with. The client was glad to make contact, hoping to schedule an appointment. “Unfortunately, my calendar is at home, and I am at Mary Free Bed hospital with my husband.”

    “Oh, that is such a wonderful facility. My niece was there for rehab and she did great. I will say, it was the acupuncture that really helped her,” the client chimed in.

    “Acupuncture?” she inquired.

    “Oh, yes, they offer acupuncture at the Wege Institute connected to the hospital,” was the response.

    Her husband had acupuncture the next day, and had a normal bowl movement after just one treatment.

    Every day since her husband had been moved to rehab, she had parked in the lot right next door to the Wege Institute.

    What we need is probably always closer to us than we might think….
    wege

  • Honey

    Sacred Stories

    It was the first roof-top wedding at the resort. The day was sunny and warm. The guests were gathered, waiting for the sunset ceremony. A bee buzzed around. The groom said, “It’s been here all afternoon.”

    While reading these words, “Although physical bodies pass away, Love is eternal. We recognize and welcome all who gather here today in body and in spirit. Each offers a contribution to this celebration and adds a unique blessing upon this marriage. Today, the bride will be married in her grandmother’s wedding ring” a bee flew under the eyeglasses of the minister. It did not sting, it just stayed there on the eyelid, until the glasses were removed to set the bee free.

    The bride’s grandmother’s nickname?

    Honey!

    Watch for the messages you receive each day from nature.

  • Lifeguard

    Sacred Stories

    He was walking on the local pier with some friends.

    St. Joseph North Pier Lights in St. Joseph Michigan 707855
    St. Joseph North Pier Lights in St. Joseph Michigan 707855

    Several guys, slightly older than he and his friends, jumped off the pier into the water. One started going down! Others were calling out that they could not swim.

    His friends did just what he knew not to do. They jumped in to try to save the others.

    He did what he had been trained to do: grab a life ring and toss it to the person in the water so you can pull that person to safety from your own stable position.

    Interestingly, he had just learned that in lifeguard training the previous day….

    Coincidence or divine timing, call it what you will.

  • Coke!

    Sacred Stories

    Following his transition, a young man’s mother was feeling very bereft. When she went into a convenience store one day, to buy a cola, she numbly slid the cooler door open.

    Reaching in, there on the shelf of the cooler, staring right out at her, was a bottle with her son’s first name!

    Coke - Kyle

    Right next to the bottle with his first name on it, she was looking at a bottle with his middle name!

    coke - tyler

    It is true that messages are everywhere. Those who love us never leave us.

  • Barred Owl

    Sacred Stories

    Traveling to visit a friend in Florida, she missed the road and ended up on a two-track where she had a surprise encounter with a barred owl.

    This visit turned out to be their last; her friend passed away before they would be together again.

    Walking on the beach at home, she came upon a most unusual find: a dead barred owl. She was instantly reminded of the owl she had seen on the way to visit her friend, and she recognized this communication through nature.
    barred owl

  • Hope You Feel Better Soon

    Sacred Stories

    It was rainy, cold, and dark—exactly how she felt—when she saw the deflated helium balloon on the ground in the park. Her heart was filled with grief and disdain as she grabbed the trash and tossed it into the back seat of her car. She had made the long (out-of-state) trip back to the town where her husband had died one year earlier. What had she hoped to gain?

    Feeling totally alone, she drove toward home. She was startled by a noise in the back seat and, looking in the rear view mirror, near terrified as she saw a shadowy image behind her. Then she realized what it was; the balloon had been inflated by the warmth of the car heater.


    Eeyore Balloon

    Eeyore is a character in the Winnie-the-Pooh books by A. A. Milne. He is generally characterized as pessimistic, gloomy, and depressed. She knew her husband was there with her. She had not been abandoned. None of us ever are….