Tag: obituary

  • “Lefty”

    His daughter let him know of the passing of an out-of-state friend. He was scheduled to be visiting his daughter and family the following week. He could be there to attend the funeral. Sitting down at the dining table to eat his breakfast he began reading the obituary, and casually said aloud, “Alexa, shuffle songs by Merle Haggard.”

    He had not really been noticing what was playing. But the line, “Lefty, he can’t sing the blues all night long like he use to,” from the song Lefty and Poncho certainly caught his attention. He knew it was a God-incidence.

    Although he had never known their friend’s formal name, the obituary read:

    John Alvin “Lefty” Barnett!

    A wave doesn’t just roll into the shore. It also rolls back out to sea. If it didn’t roll back out to sea, it couldn’t roll into the shore. And that is the human existence. If we didn’t come into these bodies, we wouldn’t leave these bodies. And if we didn’t leave these bodies, we wouldn’t come into these bodies. That is the nature of the eternal existence. ~ Debra Basham 7-10-2026

  • Come on, let’s go….

    Sacred Stories

    She passed away of natural causes while vacationing in Argentina.

    The night before she passed, she dreamed that she was walking on the beach when she felt someone touch her hand. She turned around and it was her late husband.

    He said, “Come on, let’s go.”

    She shared having had the dream.

    The following day, at age 61, she died on the third anniversary of her late husband’s death.

    Her obituary included this powerful line, “Her last trip aboard was the beginning of a new and everlasting one.”

    “Sacred” stories are being shared openly. Reflect on what this all means for you. What is real? Who are you?

  • Army/Navy Game

    Sacred Stories

    He was a member of West Point’s “Black Knights” Army Football team.

    As a defensive end and fullback, his Army team beat Navy in 1966 and 1968, and tied them in 1965.

    December 14, 2019, is the day of his funeral and the day of the Army/Navy game!

  • Obituary

    Sacred Stories

    The drug store she worked in carried the local newspaper. One evening, as she was getting ready to go home, she went to the front of the store and opened the paper.

    Turning to the back page, she said to a co-worker, “I just wanted to check to see if my mother-in-law’s obituary was in here.”

    It was not.

    “Is your mother-in-law ill?” the co-worker asked.

    “I have no idea. I haven’t had contact with her in years.”

    Two days later, she found out her mother-in-law actually had died that day, but it wasn’t in the paper yet!

    These are sacred stories. Have one to share? Send email to debra@scs-matters.com.

  • Cracked Lid

    Sacred Stories

    A friend’s obituary showed up in my inbox at work. I process obits.

    My friend was 97. She had given me a Tupperware container before she moved away four years earlier.
    tupperware

    My lunch salad was in that container. The previous day I noticed the lid had cracked….