Debra Basham

Living and Loving

Tag: Lee

  • Select Lee

    She took an immediate deep breath and felt tangible support from spirit as she passed a van in the grocery store parking lot.


    Lee is the name of her beloved mentor, now in spirit. Lee had once commented to her on the fact that those who go before us can hear us and help us. She certainly could use his help as she was out of state providing support to her daughter and family following a complicated labor and delivery. There was now a frustrated two-year-old, and a needy newborn in the home. While her daughter was busy doing the work of recovering, she was left to do the rest.

    Key words from the SelectLee.com website point to the heart of his message:

    Successful Projects Start With Core Values

      Safety is paramount
      Quality is at the heart of everything we do
      Integrity defines our approach
      Success means achieving the best outcomes

    Thank you, Lee, for having been here in body and for now being here in spirit. You are seen, you and felt, you are so very dear, grateful to know you are still near….

  • Slow-Lee

    Sacred Stories

    She had been very recently widowed, now navigating her life without her husband of many decades. Responsibilities which had been shared by two, now sat on her shoulders, including tending to a new will.

    And now she was really feeling ALONE with all of her normal outside activities cancelled to help stop the spread of COVID-19.

    She and her good friend were both currently “safe sheltering” but would speak on the phone daily to draw support. The previous day they had each had a time of tears.

    “I had a dream last night,” she said. “Every time I used the incorrect grammar in my class saying slow where I should have used the adverb slowly, a voice would add the LY.”

    “Oh, if that were my dream,” her friend excitedly burst forth, “that would be your husband coming through letting you know you do not have to worry about doing everything perfectly. He is still helping you. You are still working as a team.”

    She said slowly, “His middle name is LEE….”